It was some Years back and I was excited to have fallen in love with my first girlfriend...she was beautiful,vivacious,gentle,mature and incredibly adorable...she spoke like a Queen and walked like a Princess...We fell for each other,started exchanging loads of sentimental love letters,started hanging out together,going for romantic walks every evening and would cuddle up together every weekend and listen to an endless retinue of lovesongs... We couldnt resist each other...it was special in every single way...

I would go to their place or she would come at ours...then we'd just lose ourselves in a love jamboree...we'd laugh,cuddle,kiss,read books and play like little kids...I WAS IN LOVE. TOTALLY...

One day I was on my way to her place...she had told Me she would be BUSY all day BUT I thought ,"Why dont I drop by just to suprise her..." so I went...I textd her and told her, "Baibe am kamin @ Ur place" and she replied ,"But Baibe,NOT TODAY...I told U al b busy ol day,I hav alot ov work 2do..."

Somehow,I didnt believe her...so I continued walking til I got there...the gate wasnt closed...I opened it gently and slipped into the compound...And gently and steelthily,I crept up to her door,I wanted to suprise her...I had a bar of chocolate,a red teddy bear and a little romantic movie for us to watch...suprisingly,the door wasnt closed...so I pushed aside the door curtain AND BAM! There she was! Tightly held in the arms of some other guy! The radio was so loud so they couldnt hear Me! And they were deeply engrossed in the deepest,most elaborate kissing marathon ever! And she was half nude! And the guy's hands were allover her! It was like a 1950's Movie Scene... Ok,Ok...My heart sank...I didnt say a word...Or interupt their love session...I crept back and walked away...but when I got to the gate,I decided to let her know I was there...so I went to the nearby shop...asked for a pen and paper and wrote,"Hi Baibe. I was here. But I didnt want to disturb. I brought U sum chocol8..." and I went back to their house,placed the chocolates and teddy hear by the door and placed my little written note on top...then I left...

Later,she confessed everything,told me that that other guy was her neighbour! Yes,neighbour! And that she doesnt understand how they ended up there! She begged and cried and cried...Well,I LOVED HER TO DEATH,So I forgave her...It was tough,but I did it...We continued with our relationshp BUT IT WAS NEVER the same again!

I am reminded of a car...When a car gets a minor accident,the owner takes it to a garage...the garage people try to repair it and re-paint the area where the car was dented...BUT ONE THING I KNOW IS: Even If You re-paint the car,IT WILL NEVER match the rest of the car!

The re-painted part will always LOOK different from the rest of the car colour! And Everyday the owner of the car looks at that re-painted part,IT WILL ALWAYS remind him of that accident he had years ago!

WHY CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP??

Many want Us to believe that CHEATING is A REALITY and We have to live with it!

NO . CHEATING IS NOT A REALITY! And WE DONT HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT!

A Man who CHEATS is NOT practising REALITY!

REALITY means being REAL. Being TRUE. Being HONEST. Being SINCERE.

Thats WHAT reality Means! When He gave You his heart,He trusted You with it! And when she gave You her heart,SHE TRUSTED You could handle it!

Instead of faking everything,WHY DONT YOU QUIT and Be Yourself?? Thats what REALITY means!

REALITY does NOT mean lies,faking love and little games! Thats NOT Reality!

Instead Of pretending You are in Love,WHY DONT YOU dump her,why dont you dump him and explore Your wild sexual exploits??!

SOME OF US BELIEVE IN NOTHING BUT FAITHFULNESS!

If she is there for You,If she is true to You,If she stays by your side,If she is honest with You,If she does ANYTHING You ask her,THEN SHE DESERVES RESPECT. FAITHFULNESS AND TOTAL HONESTY!

Same case applies to the Man!

If You cant kiss JUST ONE GIRL,If You cant LOVE just one girl,If You cant think of just ONE girl, THEN STOP lying to her that she's THE ONLY ONE! Do her a favor,let her go and then sort out Your Mess!

CHEATING may be Everywhere today BUT WE CAN rise Up and SAY, WE ARE NOT "EVERYWHERE"... WE ARE WHO WE ARE!

Stay True. Stay Real. Stay Honest.

If You are Unhappy,then QUIT! But as long as YOU ARE IN LOVE with a human being,ITS A CRIME to create space for ANOTHER HUMAN BEING!

When You break someone's heart,no matter how many times you try to repair it,IT NEVER really heals,Its NEVER the same again! Ever!

A HEART is NOT an Egg. So why BREAK it???

After all,
Its NOT a SHAME to be faithful. Its an HONOR.

BE REAL. STAY FAITHFUL. Thats All.